What to pack for the hospital bag…as a Surrogate!

 

 

Ear plugs – sounds funny but we all know sleep is crucial to your recovery and that’s hard to do with the beeping machines and neighboring cries. Pack them now and thank me later!

You will have time to shower. Unlike when you delivered your own baby and every second was spent coddling, nursing, or just staring at your magical being; this time you’ll have time for YOU as the parents tend to their newborn. Bring any shower essentials, and heck bring your makeup bag while you’re at it, I can promise you there will be plenty of pictures!

Phone charger, chapstick, warm socks, and stretchy pants, are on our top 10.

Typically the Cord Blood Kit is delivered to you, make sure this is with you and your “go” bag at all times. I always recommend a snack or two since you never know the quality of the food or if you’ll miss it while you’re sleeping soundly!

Don’t overpack! The average Surrogate is released in under 24hrs, provided delivery was smooth, so there is no reason for extra clothes. In fact, you can likely go home in what you wore in. Leggings in, leggings out! A loose T-shirt or sweater will be best. I’m sure you remember, but no need to pack fresh undies…they’ll give you the most glamorous gauzy pair!

What’s in my bag:
Ear plugs or Ear Buds
Chapstick
Lotion
Phone Charger
Granola Bars
Leggings and Loose Tee
Fuzzy Socks
Hair ties
Brush
Toiletries and basic makeup essentials
Massage tool for during labor
Facial Wipes
Cord Blood Kit

Acupuncture for Surrogate Mom Maritza!

Surrogate Mom, Maritza is preparing for her transfer with acupuncture! According to Fertility IQ – The goal of acupuncture is to improve “vital flow” or Qi (pronounced “chee”) throughout a patient’s body to improve the body’s ability to heal itself and return to a state of balance. Join us in sending positive vibes for a positive Qi!

One Month Away from Delivery!!

Surrogate Mom, Amanda, is 1 month away from delivery! She will be having a scheduled C-Section next month. She is looking fabulous, feeling fabulous and, well, IS fabulous! She also makes delicious cookies which we are ever so grateful for. We can’t wait to see you through this journey Amanda!

 

Thoughtful Gift for Intended Parents!

Made with a little bit of science and a whole lot of love is what this bear’s shirt says! Our Surrogate Mom, Angela, gifted this to her Intended Parents. What you’re hearing is their baby’s heartbeat when you squeeze the belly. Something for them to snuggle with until delivery! Such a precious and thoughftul idea. We know they cherish it now, and will forever.

 

First Surrogate Mother Birth Story of 2019 – Melissa!

Starting our first group of the year with an amazing Birth story!! Melissa’s favorite part of her surrogacy journey was the moment her Couple became Parents!! Seeing them with their daughter in their arms is a memory she will treasure forever. Thank you, Melissa, for sharing your story, and your journey with us. You are truly one of a kind!

 

Hospital Tours Are a Great Resource

Hospital Tour…check! Whether it be to meet the staff, check out the nursery, or learn about the menu; we feel this is a great way to prepare the Intended Parents for what’s about to come! Most importantly, you want to know which entrance to use in the middle of the night since babies always seem to come in the wee hours. Not all hospitals offer a maternity tour but many do, and they typically offer them on a rotating schedule so be sure to call ahead and put this on your calendar.

 

Lunch with Our Surrogate Mothers is the Best!

We try to make it to every appointment. Why? We feel support is key to a successful surrogate journey. But, honestly, we just love being there! The best part is catching up! We love our girls and create unique bonds with each one. Appointments are a great time to share updates about other surrogate moms and of course how the kiddos are doing! Sometimes we are lucky enough that 2 appointments will fall on the same day and we can get together for lunch in between! Another important area of support is the one that these amazing women provide to each other. Being able to relate to one another is very special as are the friendships we see develop along the way.

 

Positive Vibes to Surrogate Mother Jeanette!

Second time surrogate Mom, Jeanette, is just as excited this time as she was previously. Each experience is truly unique. Jeanette’s transfer will be the first one of the year for 2019. Join us in sending positive vibes for a successful embryo transfer and a smooth 9 months!