We recognize that surrogacy is a mutually beneficial relationship and would love to discuss how a journey can financially benefit your family. Submit the this form and our GC Intake Coordinator will be in touch to help you determine if BFI is the right fit for you!
Why is the psychological screening necessary?
Our role is to support you through every step of your surrogacy journey. Part of that is being able to understand and anticipate your needs. The test results will provide us with information that will aid us in finding the perfect match for you and to support your journey.
What can I expect during the psychological evaluation?
Your psychological evaluation will consist of two portions. A multiple choice personality assessment and a conversation with the program psychologist. No need to be nervous, the psychologist is simply getting to know you, there are no wrong answers in the evaluation.
Are the Intended Parents evaulated as well? Why?
Yes! Just like your psychological evaluation prepares us to support your journey, it serves the same purpose for your IPs. Being able to truly understand you both helps us to provide you with the tools for a successful surrogacy journey.
How often will I meet with a program psychologist?
After you have been cleared, you will not meet with the program psychologist again until you are officially in contract with your Intended Parents. At this point, you will begin monthly meetings. Alternating months you will meet in a group setting with other gestational carriers in the program and the psychologist. In the opposite months you will meet with the psychologist alone. This allows you both the benefit of community with your fellow surrogates and the privacy to communicate with the psychologist one on one. During these meetings you will discuss any and all aspects of your journey.
What if I want to talk to the psychologist outside of support meetings?
If you need support outside of the designated time, you may contact the psychologist to set up an appointment. They are here to support you during your journey.
Why can’t I use my Intended Parents lawyer?
This is as simple as ensuring that all parties feel heard and that individual needs are being met. Each party deserves to know that their legal representation has their best interests at heart.
Will I be on medications for the entire pregnancy?
Not typically. Obviously, we can’t guarantee that a situation will not arise where you may need some sort of medication during your pregnancy, but the medications required to achieve pregnancy will generally discontinue around 8-12 weeks.
Can I choose my own OBGYN?
That is our hope! However, your health insurance plan will determine what OB and hospital we use. Keep in mind that your care will be managed by the Reproductive Endocrinologist’s team until at least 10 weeks of pregnancy.
Can I meet current GCs with the program before starting my journey?
Absolutely! BFI hosts regular events both in person and virtually. If you’ve submitted an inquiry, we will reach out with an invite. Our weekly zoom event is where potential GCs and current/past GCs meet to catch up and answer questions. Feel free to join us Tuesday nights at 7pm PST.